What will we do when we are ready to slow down a
bit?
by Sharon and Bill Whitaker – Site 306, SKP# 91484
When my husband, Bill, and I retired
in 2000 we had no idea that by 2003 we would
set out on the great adventure called fulltime Rving. Even though we had been stationed in several
different cities during his 22 years in the Navy, we longed to see the many
parts of the country that had eluded us, so we bought a 21 ft Itasca on a
Toyota chassis and set off. The beauty we saw and the terrific people we met
soon convinced us that this is what we wanted to do with the rest of our
lives.
We rented our home and set off.
By 2006 we had sold the home and had traded motor homes twice, ending up
with our current 39 ft. Fleetwood Discovery.
We had covered about half the US and several Canadian Provinces and felt
we would never be ready to totally settle down and stay in one place year
around again.
However, after 4 years on the road, we looked ahead to the day when we
would want (or need) to slow down a bit and spend the winters in one
place. As Thousand Trails members we
could spend most of the winter in one park – except that we had to leave the
park for a week every three weeks and that was often inconvenient, especially
when it interfered with one of Bill's ski trips.
Looking ahead we realized there were several options for the time when
we no longer wanted to deal with this.
Whatever option we chose would have to meet certain criteria. It would have to:
- Be located in a warm climate
- Be close enough to San Diego so Bill could go skiing with his ski
buddies
- Have larger than normal sites – we didn't want to share our
neighbors TV
- Have lots of activities to keep us busy
- Allow us to do some landscaping
- Have reasonable original cost and ongoing fees
- Allow the residents a great deal of say in how the park was run
- The most important of all – be made up of friendly people
We could rent a space in a nice park for the winter which would not
lock us into the same place every year. However, in places we checked out, the
sites were small, rents could go up at the whim of management, we could do no
landscaping and residents had no say whatsoever in how the park was run. Paying rent, to us, has always seemed like
throwing money away. We decided this was
not our best option.
Purchasing land and installing RV hook ups was another option, but
locations where it's allowed really didn't appeal to us. There would be no maintenance fees, however
we would have to pay property taxes and insurance. As we traveled we would worry about things going
wrong. We could personalize the property to our needs, however should we change
our minds, we would have to sell the property ourselves, possibly loosing
money. This idea also went to the bottom
of our list of options.
We could purchase a space in one of the parks such as Outdoor Resorts which
would be expensive, both in the initial cost and monthly maintenance fees. Though we could do some landscaping, the
sites were small and again, should we change our minds, we would be responsible
for selling the lot and improvements. We
would also be property owners, possibly endangering our South Dakota residency
status. On the positive side however, there
were lots of activities and the residents seemed to be friendly. This remained an option.
Or we could buy into an SKP Co-Op. Some wonderful Escapee friends took us to
Jojoba Hills SKP Resort in Aguanga, California (17 miles east of I-15 from
Temecula) . The first thing we noticed
was the size of the sites, they were huge ( 50' X 70') and each had an 8' X 12'
storage shed! We were immediately
impressed with the facilities - there were tennis courts, pool and spas, a
craft room, a sewing room, wood shop, metal shop, a great library, pool room and that was just the start. There were activities galore. Whatever your
interest, you could just about count on there being a group devoted to that
interest. Being a gated community, we wouldn't
worry so much about things going wrong while we travelled. The maintenance fees appeared to be
reasonable and the park was run by the membership through an elected Board of
Directors.
The final item was the way ownership works. Once we bought in, if we change our minds we could
release our share of the co-op membership back to the resort and get our full
membership investment back. At the end
of our residence, our only outlay would be our monthly maintenance fees and
utilities. Then we met some of the friendly residents and that finalized our decision,
Jojoba Hills it would be.
We put our name on the waiting list and two and a half years later got
the all important phone call that a site was available. We have never been welcomed as warmly as we were
at Jojoba Hills. Our neighbors all
offered help and advice when we wanted to landscape our site and told us about
the best businesses in the area. We were
welcomed into the existing activities with open arms and asked to serve on
advisory committees or volunteer for one of the many groups that help maintain
the resort. There was even a group that played our favorite RV game, Jokers and
Pegs, weekly!
We found there was something here for everyone from playing pickleball
to quilting and card playing. There were
pot lucks, ice cream socials, special interest groups that got together to
share ideas and there were great holiday celebrations.
I was thrilled to find that there was both a photography group and a
writers group that meet frequently. Bill
immediately began to work with the landscape committee helping maintain the
resorts plants and trees and he learned to play pickleball. It didn't take long to realize that we would
have to work awfully hard at being bored here!
Jojoba Hills was, and is, a community, much like small towns in the 50s
were. Neighbors look after each other
and we don't worry about locking the car at night. Should I forget and leave my detergent in the
laundry room, I know it will be there when I go back. There is a pride of ownership we hadn't seen
in years. For example, you never see a
piece of paper on the ground, people always pick up after their dogs, and you
often see walkers stopping to pull some weeds.
If you are ever in the Southern California area, stop by for a tour or
stay a while. We would love to be able
to share this wonderful place with more Escapees.